In Just 90 Minutes
Go from co-existing
to deep connection
Learn to show up for yourself, resolve conflict, and build deep trust.
Does your relationship feel like you're just roommates - or worse, sparring partners?!
Feeling disconnected, struggling to communicate well, finding yourselves in constant conflict, maybe even feeling a little lonely?
If these feelings sound all too familiar, you're not alone.
Many of my clients have felt the same way: like their relationship had taken a major backseat to the rest of their life and they missed their person and the connection they once had.
So, I created the Connected Couple Course to help you the way I helped them.
THIS ISN'T THERAPY, IT'S A BLUEPRINT
In this short course you'll learn the skills and techniques needed to overcome these common pain points and create a strong and loving connection with your partner.
No matter how long you've been together or how deep the rift may seem, there are a few simple, intentional actions that can draw you back together like never before.
START CONNECTING NOW
Session 1
Remembering why you love your person
Learn to focus on the positive aspects of a relationship, especially during difficult times.

Session 2
The Components of a healthy relationship
Healthy relationships are a commitment to reality at all costs.

Session 3
Being on the same team
Learn how to align with each other and create a shared vision for life.

Session 4
Communication
Time for you both to be heard and seen.

Session 5
The joy of conflict
Learn to transform conflict into opportunities for deep connection.

Session 6
Distractions
Distractions are everywhere, learn to avoid letting them replace your person.

Session 7
Intimacy
There are 6 different types of intimacy - each is important, and only 1 is physical.
Don't wait around hoping for and missing that fulfilling and loving relationship you deserve.
Take the first step towards creating a deep and meaningful connection with your partner with the Connected Couple Course today.
START CONNECTING NOW
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NICE TO MEET YOU
I'm Jason VanRuler
LPC-MH, QMHP, LMHC, CSAT
I’m all about helping you take meaningful action to get the relationship you deserve.
My goal is to help you uncover the best version of yourself by discovering what you actually need and taking intentional action to get there.
If you’re ready to get the relationship you deserve, it's time to get Connected.
